Friday, November 29, 2019

Telling The Kids We are Going Skiing For Christmas

On my 40th birthday morning, before we embarked on my special day, we took some time to start to get Christmas decorations out. This year, we made an intentional decision to decrease the amount of decorations around the house and only bring out the things that had special meaning. So we had delayed getting our big Christmas tree out, on purpose. Just before we were leaving, we told the kids that we had an early gift for them. They were excited and confused and opened the large box to find a new flocked 3' Christmas tree. So we set the cute new tree up on the island and afterwards, we gave them 3 individual boxes to unwrap, where they found pouches filled with individualized photo ornaments for each of them. 










They loved looking at all the different pictures and figured out that they were photos from our last year's traveling adventures. So they realized that this new little tree was going to be called our "Adventure Tree." They liked it but they weren't wow'd. So we handed them one more smaller stripped wrapped gift. They unwrapped it, were confused still, opened the tin, and Addie read the words on the clear ornament.....



... that said "Brown Family's 1st White Christmas Breckenridge, CO - 2019." I will never forget Carter, yelling "What!?? No..... We are going to Breckenridge for Christmas?!"  with the biggest smile on his face. Delaney was confused until Carter asked her if she understood what this meant and she said, "No." He said, "We are going to skiing for Christmas!" Addison was quick to ask about presents. Delaney said "I'm going to make a snow man! We will have snow on Christmas morning." It is by far one of my top 3 memories that I caught on video in 2019! Carter's eyes got glassy and he just put his head into my shoulder as tears of joy filled his eyes for at least 2-3 minutes. See, for the last 2-3 years, Carter has been consistent to say, of all our adventures and new places we have gone, the Colorado mountains are his #1 favorite place. He writes about it for school papers and lists it when asked. I love how the kid's don't just assume they are skiing every year and that it's truly a special activity that "get" to do occasionally and the joy that it brings them to look forward to it.









Megan is 40!

My 40th birthday was the day after Thanksgiving and on Black Friday. I loved how it fell on a holiday this year and I could send an entire day with my family. When I walked in the house from Orange Theory that morning, they surprised me at the door and had decorated the house, had breakfast ready for me and the kids had planned a special day for me. They know I am all about impromptu new experiences, so we explored random fruit stands on the south side of San Antonio, stopped at a sushi restaurant we had never been to in Alamo Heights and the said they wanted to take me to a movie and to choose one. It ended up being a huge, laughable mom failure, when I choose the new Mr Roger's Tom Hanks movie purely based on the awesome Rotten Tomatoes reviews it had, especially compared to the Frozen 2. I didn't even read a synopsis and 20 minutes into the movie, I was laughing to myself, finally noticing there wasn't another child below 16 in the movie theater. While it wasn't anything bad, the story line was definitely not for a 6 year old. All I could do was look at Blake and laugh and me so glad that I was 40 years old and had perspective in life, not to care too much or take it too seriously. I was shocked with how engaged all of them were and how Addison truly seemed to get something out of it. It is definitely a memory I will remember for a while. While at the movies, the Burek's invited us over for the evening so we had a fun night playing all the games in their game room, laughing while playing Ms. PacMan, ping pong and other arcade games.













Blake gave me this to prepare for our BIG 40th birthday adventure we are embarking on in 2020!





A list Delaney had made for me of all the gift ideas that I may like as I turned 40 years old.